Why Me? Can’t we just fix the relationship? If, like most people, what you really want to do is fix your relationship right now, why are you asked to focus on yourself? You know what the problems are, and if your partner would change, so would your relationship. You’re probably thinking: Why start from square […]
One of the issues with relationships we deal with most often is incomplete communication – things that couples want each other to know, but that they don’t say directly. Today we’re talking about what we’ve learned that men want women to know, which they generally will not say out loud. This “insider information” […]
Couples always ask us to teach them communication skills. Usually they are having trouble understanding where their partners are coming from. Their communication breaks down quickly when the broach a topic they disagree about. They cannot understand how they get caught in what we call “the 0-60 ramp up phenomenon”: it takes a minute to […]
My husband, Jerry and I help couples heal their relationships, most often in a two- day, private retreat format. There are specific benefits all couples receive, regardless of the reason that initially brought them to us. Some couples come to stop their relationship from the slide into deterioration, others want us to weigh in on […]
Spring gifts us with a booster-shot of motivation. Who can resist the urge to clean, de-clutter, purge, and simplify our environment? This year, consider whether your inner environment could benefit from a Spring cleaning too. Our handy checklist will help you clear out the clutter so your relationship can shine!