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Your inner relationship fingerprint exerts an unconscious power on your relationship. Understanding this is critical to making sense of your relationship. It helps explain why people feel suffocated, stifled, trapped, or unloved and unappreciated, in their relationships and don’t  understand why. It explains phenomena such as staying even when you’re unhappy, extreme people pleasing, and the fear people have of telling each other what’s really on their mind. Many people feel pressured to change their personality or habits to make their partners happy. Others feel intimidated when their partners change, even for the better. Afraid to risk disconnection, they may distort or lose parts of themselves. These human tendencies make it difficult for a person to be true to himself while also keeping a partner happy. Our theoretical model of the Inner Relationship Fingerprint ™  is the back bone of our approach in our individual and couples counseling and retreats. In a nutshell, we deconstruct your IRF to help you better understand yourself and your relationship patterns, problems and frustrations. Couples benefit from gaining an awareness of their IRF, and by understanding its very personal and powerful impact. Let’s face it: love is a messy game with no guarantees, yet love is also the most profound and satisfying experience in a lifetime. By becoming aware of your IRF, real and lasting change becomes possible, and with the ability to change, you increase your chances of relationship success. We see it happen every day.