Understanding your Relationship Fingerprint

Intro

Examine for a moment the inside of one of your fingertips.

Do you see the intricate pattern of lines? Now imagine each line as a characteristic unique to you.

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You A distinctive constellation of Needs and wants Fears, hopes, dread, despair, Attachment styles, Delusions, dreams, appetites, thoughts, sensations, sensitivities, Chemistry, DNA, body type, biorhythms, Temperament, idiosyncrasies, habits, behaviors, Strengths, weaknesses, talents, limitations, emotional intelligence, Chaos, change, intimacy, solitude, emotionality, Independence, dependence, interdependence, Masculine, Feminine, All creating Your own Inner Relationship Fingerprint.

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You are a unique layering of biology, biography, archetype, culture, and experience.

Together these form an intricate system of thoughts, beliefs, habits, feelings, and expectations about relationships. We call this wondrous pattern your Inner Relationship Fingerprint™ or “Fingerprint” or “IRF.”

Like your own fingerprint, your IRF is the only one of its kind.

Your IRF influences your relationship experiences in both positive and negative ways. It can limit your capacity to form or sustain satisfying relationships. It operates outside your conscious awareness, which might explain why you act and react the way you do or why your relationship isn't working.

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Curious? Take our 80 question assessment. You will discover which of four distinct types best describes you, and get a general idea — the broad brushstrokes — of your fingerprint.

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Your inner relationship fingerprint exerts an unconscious power on your relationship. Understanding this is critical to making sense of your relationship. It helps explain why people feel suffocated, stifled, trapped, or unloved and unappreciated, in their relationships and don’t  understand why. It explains phenomena such as staying even when you’re unhappy, extreme people pleasing, and the fear people have of telling each other what’s really on their mind. Many people feel pressured to change their personality or habits to make their partners happy. Others feel intimidated when their partners change, even for the better. Afraid to risk disconnection, they may distort or lose parts of themselves. These human tendencies make it difficult for a person to be true to himself while also keeping a partner happy. Our theoretical model of the Inner Relationship Fingerprint ™  is the back bone of our approach in our individual and couples counseling and retreats. In a nutshell, we deconstruct your IRF to help you better understand yourself and your relationship patterns, problems and frustrations. Couples benefit from gaining an awareness of their IRF, and by understanding its very personal and powerful impact. Let’s face it: love is a messy game with no guarantees, yet love is also the most profound and satisfying experience in a lifetime. By becoming aware of your IRF, real and lasting change becomes possible, and with the ability to change, you increase your chances of relationship success. We see it happen every day.

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Ready now? Take our 80 question assessment. You will discover which of four distinct types best describes you, and get a general idea — the broad brushstrokes — of your fingerprint.

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