Intensive Couples Counseling Retreat

Our intensive couples counseling retreat will change your life.

It’s that simple.

You start where you are and we take you where you want to go.

Our intensive couples therapy retreat is a sanctuary for couples who are you are struggling, in distress, or in crisis – and who want a happier, more peaceful life together.

You may be dealing with infidelity, addiction, rage, mid-life crisis or other relationship shattering issues.

You may have already tried couples counseling and felt you never got to the root of the problem.

You may wonder if you are beyond help.

You may be on the brink of divorce or splitting-up and want to make one last effort to save your relationship.

Our couples counseling retreat is for you if these questions and thoughts keep you up at night:

Why do our normal conversations always ignite into red hot arguments?

My partner is cold as ice and withdrawn from me.

Are you tired of getting your buttons pushed?

Are you afraid to say what’s really on your mind?

Do you want more say, more sex, more satisfaction?

I want to feel closer.

My partner doesn’t get me, love me, or trust me.

I need some freedom – space to breathe.

I crave closeness and want my partner to accept me + stop trying to change me.

I am sick and tired of being seen as a meal ticket.

How can I get her to stop criticizing and belittling me?

Our intensive couples counseling retreat is for you if you:

  • Want to refocus, reframe, revitalize and repair your relationship.
  • Want to let go of anger, guilt, hurt, and resentment.
  • Want to stop the shame and blame.
  • Want an objective opinion
  • Want to stop envying other couples.
  • Want a new, fresh perspective.
  • Want to bring back the love + ease + comfort.
  • Want to have an experience that will change your life.

Our couple to couples counseling approach is cathartic + healing, strategic, forward moving and practical. It’s like nothing you’ve experienced before.

No cookie cutter models. No formulas. No preachy, do it our way lesson.

Couples tell us they love couple to couple counseling retreats with us in a couples retreat setting. They feel safe and comfortable in our hands and know we’ve got their backs. Couples bask in our judgment-free zone.

The four of us “roll up our sleeves” and work to uncover the patterns and dynamic that block your bliss

For as long as it takes.

No matter if the sun goes down.

You wanna fly, you got to give up the shit that weighs you down. –Toni Morrison

Together we wade through the pain, the tears, the hard stuff and break-through to the other side. That place you want to be. The feeling is visceral, unmistakable + full of sweet relief.  You’ll know when you get there. And then, we celebrate because you’ve made it through the hardest part. You’ll feel lighter and more hopeful.

And ready for what’s next –

Working together to craft a practical custom blueprint to capture your breakthrough and re-structure your relationship.
We’ll send you off with a concrete plan, specific tools + best of all, new hope + rekindled excitement about your future together.

You’ll leave with an open heart knowing you’ve gotten to the heart of the matter

Take the first step. Get in touch and we can talk it over + help you decide if you will benefit from our couples therapy retreat. Please don’t book the retreat until you’ve talked with us. We want too make sure it is right for you.

Our couples retreats are held in Boston and Portsmouth, NH.

We’ve decided to add a new option to our offerings:  Intensive couples counseling retreats via Skype. Couples are asking about this all the time and we want to make our work available to couples that live far away or out of the U.S. and cannot make the trip to see us in person.  If you are interested in a Skype session, we can schedule and plan the retreat together to fit your specific needs.

Stay tuned for the announcement of the location of our vacation retreats for February-March 2015.  Sign up for our mailing list if you don’t want to miss out.

If you decide we’re the ones for you + we’ve nailed down a date, you’re almost ready to go.

Take the final step. Reserve your spot by hitting the fancy orange button below. 

You’ll be taken to Paypal where you can use your Paypal account or major credit card. Rather pay by check? No problem. Shoot us an email and we’ll arrange it.

Not a Paypal member? No worries. Just click on “guest” and proceed.

Having troubles? We’re happy to help.



Price: $2800 per couple

Price: $3300 per couple for Boston location

(Does not include lodging, meals, or air fare.)


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